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Ask Giantmonk #5: Beside The Seaside

Kat Of The Canals asks:

Dear Giantmonk, When I was about 7 years old I had a conversation with my father. We were debating where the seaside was, which we were due to visit that day. Upon enquiring, my father replied with a simple ‘it’s by the beach’. Undeterred I asked where the beach was. He simply replied ‘It’s by the sea’. On the conversation went for quite some time until one of the two of us grew tired. 27 years later I can’t quite remember who! Anyway, for the last 27 years I have been pondering that very question… Is the sea near the beach, or is the beach near the sea? I do hope you can help me resolve this one Giantmonk, so that I can move on with my life and put this one to bed. Thank you in advance Kat (of the Canals) p.s. I really like your amazing website, witty personality and delectable style!

Dearest Kat, your own style and wit are also both charming and delectable, and I can hardly believe that you have had a question revisit you for 27 years: that must be a typing error as you look in no way old enough for that to be the case. However long the period of time might be, let me answer plainly: the beach is by the sea.

My reasoning is as follows:  A beach is formed by deposits of various forms of sediment material, mostly land mineral in origin, often comprising bits of hard organic matter such as shells of sea creatures. The wave movement of the sea and tides causes this material to move over time and build up areas of deposits which we call a beach, whether it be of sand, shingles or  pebbles, etc. Without the sea (or occasionally other body of water such as a river) to move the sediment into place then there would never be the creative power to form the beach. The beach is near the sea because the sea was there before the beach existed – the beach moved in to residence later.

So, ignore Dean Martin – he was wrong – the lazy ocean does not hug the shore, the shore moved in to give the ocean a big friendly cuddle.

Giantmonk In Top Hat

Ask Giantmonk #4: Giantmonk Dresses For Wedding Success

Anne asks:

Giantmonk, what sort of role have you taken on in the planning and execution of Eskimimi’s wedding to Mr. Wonderful?

Hello Anne! Let me start by saying that I do so like your hair, it is particularly complementary to your stunning good looks and sets off your features perfectly!

As much as I hope that you know I am sincere in all I have just said I hope it also goes to show what a great sense of style that I happen to have been blessed with, as well as a skill in social charm that I have developed over the last two years by talking to so many wonderful people. I have learned by the wit and grace of others, and now continue to do so through my wonderful readers, of whom you are one of my most prized.

The gifts of aesthetic appreciation and social ease have led me to my latest and perhaps most important assumed role to date: that of wedding co-ordinator and overseer of all things spectacular.

I am sure that you can appreciate that there is so much to organise and beautify for a wedding that it would be simply impossible to cover it all here, but let me indulge you with a sense of the drama I have created for the wardrobe of the wedding party.

Now, nobody should outshine the bride, of course, and I am sure that she will look absolutely lovely on the day, but as her outfit is yet to be revealed I have only my own carefully planned and balanced attire to show. This has taken literally months to plan and conceive the perfect understated yet sophisticated and eye-catching outfit so befitting a Giantmonk of my stature and bearing.

These are the details from the final design draft, as the actual outfit is currently being hand-woven and sewn by artisans whose ancestors have been weaving and sewing the finest cloth of hundreds of years, but I am sure that these sketches will give you a sense of the magnificent creation for the day.

As I said, it is customary that the bride should be the focus of all the guests’ admiring glances and I certainly wish her all of the best hope that this will be the case, but with looks like this and an outfit of this calibre, I will not be able to help it if eyes are drawn towards me whilst I carry out my very special duties as the ring-bearer!


Ask Giantmonk #3: Easter

Shivaun asks:

Comment or question for Giantmonk: Do you celebrate Easter and if so what are your plans?

Hi Shivaun! Yes, I find myself quite busy around Easter time (hence my slightly late reply. Sometimes I have to step in and help out when the Easter Bunny is slacking, and obviously as a method actor I must always ensure that I am deeply involved in the role.

Giantmonk at Easter
I am entrusted with the distribution of sweet tasty treats at Easter. I cannot pretend that I do not snack along the way… As you can see though, my favourite treat is a nice healthy vegetable. A carrot (made of jellybeans, obviously).


Ask Giantmonk #2: Bath Time

Monkey asks:

Dear Giantmonk, I have been told I need a bath because I have changed colour and I’m a bit stinky. It’s the result of too much hugging, apparently. I’m afraid of baths, but I see you have survived one. Can you give me any advice on how to face this terrifying ordeal? Monkey.

Hi Monkey! I like your name, it’s very charming – I bet you’re a handsome chap! Let me start by saying I feel your pain – I have been wfienhere you are now, and I totally understand your fear, but believe me, you can get through it. Both you and your human friends will be glad that you took the plunge (literally).

Giantmonk and his washing lotions and potions

The first thing you need to do is choose your washing lotions and potions. Now, look at me – as you can see I am made of cloth, so this is a very different process from your common ‘zoo monkey’ wash time. As I am made from cloth I find that the best thing to use is a cleansing solution made for fabric. You can see me posing like a gorgeous model with two brands of such lotions and potions above. Take note of a small but significant difference between the two bottles that I am holding – one is a washing liquid which loosens any dirt from my fibres, and the other is something girly – I don’t understand it but it is supposed to make things soft and smell nice, so I use it for Mimi’s sake.

Now, if you are super-posh you can use a liquid wash made specifically for delicate and precious things, like you. It works out quite expensive but you only use a very little and I can tell from your name that you may be worth it.

This is Soak, but there are other brands available. It is a no-rinse hand wash with a pleasant, subtle smell. I’m going to go ahead and suggest that you choose whichever you prefer, but remember if you have left it a particularly long time without a bath you made need several rinses.

Anyway, on to the bathing part. Get your butler or human friend to run you a bath. It can either be in a proper bath (my preference) or, depending on your size (I am of course a rather Giant monk) in a large sink.

Run the bath until the water is about 20-30cm (8-12″) deep and at about the temperature of a cup of tea that you have left on the side for 10 minutes, or the same temperature that you’d run a bath for a young child. You can dip your elbow in the water to test it if you like – I don’t understand what you’d do that before but I have seen it on TV. Maybe you just want a wet elbow. Either way, you don’t want the water too hot just in case you shrink. I’d hate to have to change my name to Shrunkenmonk.

Swirl about two or three teaspoons of your chosen washing liquid into the bath and jump right in. It sounds scary, but it is actually quite pleasant. You should float, so try to make sure that you lay low in the water to get every little bit of you clean. If you have a handy butler-type figure in your household, now is the time to request a massage, and work all of that nice water through your body.

Now look around you. Why is the water that strange brownish grey colour? Do not panic! It is not your life-force washing away. It is what we call ‘dirt’. I know, it’s a shock, but all that has been trapped in your fibres, and now is the time to get rid!

Next comes the moment to wash your face. Hold your breath and put your head under the water whilst massaging your scalp and temples. Imagine you had hair and pretend you were having a shampoo.

Now, sit up and pull the plug out of your bath and wash all of that filthy water down the sink. Run a second bath, this time with a splash of softener, or another splash of your special care fabric wash. Do as you did before, letting the water flow through your fibres, bringing it’s sweet smells of cleanliness with it.

If you have chosen to use a no-rinse special care fabric wash, you can now simply pull out the plug and let the water flow away. However, if you are using normal fabric softener, you will need one final run of the bath water, this time completely free of any lotions or potions, to wash away any residue. Once your final rinse has taken place, just take a while to sit in the bath and get your breath back. Exhilarating wasn’t it? But wait – why have you put on so much weight? Nobody said that taking a bath would make you so heavy! Don’t worry, it’s just temporary.

Now, you have a choice, and it’s a bit of a biggie. To spin or drip?

Now, dripping is the less scary method, but it takes a very long time. If you decide to drip make sure you are in a warm, room. If you try to drip your way to success in a damp room it could go all kinds of wrong, and you may end up smelling damp. To drip, all you need to do is to squeeze each of your limbs and tummy in turn, to try and squeeze out that water (don’t worry, it will not hurt). Now, sit somewhere high, on a mesh or rack of some kind, with a bowl under you, and let gravity take the remaining water from you. It will take a while, perhaps a couple of days, but as long as you are in a warm room or even outside on a warm day, you will dry eventually.

Your other option is to spin. I know this sounds terrible, but I have done it and survived.

Giantmonk washing machine
The main benefit to going for a spin is that you will be 95% dry within a few minutes, and dry enough to cuddle by the evening. But be careful only to go in for a spin cycle, you don’t want to have a full wash or a (shudder) tumble dry. Now, don’t misunderstand me – you might be fine after a tumble dry, but I haven’t been brave enough to try one of those and I don’t think it is needed.

If you decide to go for a spin, start by squeezing as much water from your limbs and body as possible. Then, jump into a pillowcase and tie some string around the opening. This will protect you a little and also make sure that you don’t bump your eyeballs. Now, get your human friend to take you to the strange machine that looks like a spaceship and select the fast spin cycle. Pretend you’re on a fairground ride.

After five or so minutes you will emerge mostly dry. Give yourself a shake around so you don’t feel too squished, and relax a while just whilst you dry that last little bit, and get ready for some really appreciative cuddles.

NOTE: you may notice that you change colour during this process. Do not be alarmed – this is actual your natural and original colour. If it has been a particularly long time you may have forgotten this, but it is to be expected and welcomed. My, do you look so much younger! Well done, you have survived and hopefully enjoyed your first bath.


Ask Giantmonk #1: Where Art Thou From?

Ruby Gamble asks:

“International Monk” caught my eye. Whose heart and creative hands built you and where? And who is Giantmonk?

Giantmonk is me. Monk(monkey) Giant (I am a large monkey). Giant. Monk, cuddling chum extraordinaire. I am more than a mere few thousand knitted stitches and a curiously floppy arm alongside three more substantial limbs, I am best friend and confident to Mimi of Eskimimi Makes and Russell of Find It Cheapest.

I found my way into their lives when I found out that Mimi was in need of someone just like me. You see, there was once another Giantmonk, who we now call ‘Cousin Giantmonk’ who lived with Mimi and helped her through difficult and sad times. He was a handsome chap, as you can see from the picture below.
Cousin GiantmonkBut a few years ago, Mimi had to leave Giantmonk behind and say goodbye to him forever. Mimi found this very difficult, and a year later she still missed the heavy knitted cuddles that she had, though she wasn’t sad any more – she wanted someone to share happy cuddles with. So Russell sent out a long search to try to find someone who could give cuddles as good as Cousin Giantmonk, and after a couple of interviews and a rather gruelling obstacle course, it was decided that I was the monkey for the job. The first thing I did when I arrived with my tiny suitcase was to request my uniform fitting. I had seen the lovely tank top that Cousin Giantmonk sported in the photos I had seen and had assumed that I would be required to wear one of my own. Mimi laughed and said it wasn’t mandatory, but I wanted one! So we picked out a few colours, and soon enough I had my own tank top.
GiantmonkAnd that’s how I came to stay.

You also asked by who’s fair hand I was made, and the truth of it is, I do not know. I have a tag on my shapely bottom that says something about Basildon, Essex, UK, but I think I came from a big room full of like-shaped cousins… my memory on this is really fuzzy.

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